Holidays And Vacation.
Why are the holidays so difficult? Well, for starters, the holidays are already setting us in a tricky position because we build them up so much. We’ve all heard someone speak (or said it ourselves): “I wouldn’t normally eat that, other than when it is the holidays, so I have to.” Or you’ve been told (or been the one saying ): “You have to eat this for as long as it’s just not (insert holiday here) without it.”
Now, when I put it that way, you can clearly see the flaw in our logic. In reality, how do we spend the rest of the day? We spend it uncomfortably full, tired and wishing we hadn’t eaten that much! Not to mention the mental game we are performing because we just “undid” everything we had worked for. Why would we know what we want, yet still do the opposite? This is a fascinating thought for me, not only because my clients are facing it every day, but because I too have found it to be a problem.
I think we do this since we have surrendered to the moment. The holiday that we have been waiting for or the off time that we are finally on makes us feel like we have to overdo in order to enjoy ourselves. When in reality, we don’t truly enjoy ourselves because we are physically uncomfortable and more considerably, we feel that we have gone against our natural choice in the first place and done something that we quickly regret.
What is the answer? While there are many steps that can be taken to change these habits, the first thing that needs to change is our state of mind. The mindset of “doing whatever I can do to sabotage myself and go against the standard will bring me the most enjoyment right now” is clearly not giving us what we want. We may have a short period of enjoyment, but long term and even immediately following, our actions do not bring us the results we desire, and therefore we are really letting ourselves down.
The mindset that will help us succeed is this: Take the holiday, don’t let it take you. Celebrate the holidays with your choices and you will enjoy your results. When you leave it up to chance, you know the possibilities and know how you will feel afterward. When you get away, realize that the selections you make now will impact you now and in the future. We are the same people on vacation that we are at home. There is no method to forget or pretend what happens on a trip and have it somehow not affect us when we return home. Going with a goals and a realistic plan will help you manage the choices you have while still enjoying them, both during and after you make them.
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